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If just reading this title triggers you, then you know there is something to look into deeper in regards to your beliefs around money and love. Please read the full article as it is packed with tried and tested ways to shift your personal money story. Money is so often a way Twin Flame stayers get stuck on their journey as they don’t have the financial resources that can help them get the help and healing they need to move forward. This is only an illusion of lack, for in reality the Universe is always ready to supply our each and every need. Money in the end is just another way the Universe showers you with love, if you can allow yourself to receive it.
Money is love
Especially if you are struggling with your finances you might think they are two completely different things but money and love are really one and the same.
If you look closely you will see there is a direct correlation between your capacity to allow love into your life and allowing money in your life. This is because in both cases you need to be able to receive and feel that you deserve the amount of love/money coming in, cause when you don’t your subconscious mind will come up with some seemingly out of nowhere surprises to deflect it. Receiving more love or more money is like everything else in life an inside job. The more you can allow yourself to receive money/love the more it will show up in your outer reality.
Listen to this audio with Money mindset coach and Law of Attraction expert Maartje Koper from Manifestmagically.com to learn more about the relationship between money & love. Maartje started her business 2,5 years ago and was earning around €1500 a month until she really got that money is love and she is now making €60.000 a month in her business – just by changing her money story.
You need money and lots of it on the Twin Flame journey
Whether you need it for healing, to make yourself more comfortable going through all the Ascension symptoms or to bridge the time it takes to morph out of your before Twin encounter 3D life and job into your after Twin encounter new life and occupation – you cannot do this journey as in-depth and quickly as you want without money.
This might piss you off, because you don’t have money right now…
But that is a reality you created yourself – which has the amazing bright side to it that YOU CAN CHANGE THIS REALITY. All you need to do is make up your mind.
Which may lead you to thinking, well Sabriyé that’s easy for you to say but you don’t understand…. or you might just think ‘F OFF!’
I was where you are now only six years ago. I was a single mom on welfare, my baby had just died shortly after birth. My teenage son was in juvenile hall for substance abuse and the kids and I had just found their father in the house of another woman, with whom he turned out to be having an affair. I was broke, devastated and living in a two bedroom apartment with my mother and my two younger children. Life sucked.
I filed for a divorce. Applied for welfare and I wrote the city mayor of Amsterdam an eight page rant about how failing the current housing system was and that if they did not want me walking around in our famous Vondelpark completely dazed and with both my other kids in child protection they needed to make something happen NOW – because I had just about had everything a human being could take (dark night of the soul of course). My life back then seemed to come straight out of a novel by Kafka.
I got a call from the mayor’s aid that he really sympathized with my situation but had no idea what to do. The only thing he could think of was to send my letter to the housing department, which he did. That proved to be my breakthrough, bureaucrats as they were they sent me a standard letter telling me that housing laws in Amsterdam stated that you had to live there for four years in order to have access to public housing or in emergency cases, it was two years. But this time there was a back-office phone number on it and I called the person on the number and explained how urgent my situation was.
I got my declaration of urgency and one year later a beautiful three story family house. Before I could not get passed the front desk call center agents, that seemed to be trained to let no one through.
Let me tell ya, I had the worst poverty mindset and I had to really fight hard to manifest the house. And also the money to furnish the house, Social Services turned my loan application down to be able to move, because as far as they were concerned I didn’t have to move – I could keep living with my mother even when I was paying rent for a house I couldn’t move into. I appealed their decision and lost the appeal. But I didn’t give up. I was being coached to start my own business, so I told my coach that Social Services was not helping me move into my own house and so she made a call and instead of a loan I got a couple thousand euro gifted to me from Social Services to move and furnish my house.
Which only shows you that sometimes the Universe says no initially, only because it want’s to give you something much better!
I moved in May 2009 and by December 2011 I was able to sustain myself from my online work, running a web design company (this is how I met my Twin in 2014) and was off welfare. It took me three and a half years to get there, but I got there. Again 13 months later in January 2013 I blasted through the 5 figures a month for the very first time ever, creating a €10K plus revenue.
So I KNOW you can change your money story, no matter what hardships you are going through at this moment. Which is also why I chose to write this article and interview Maartje, who also came a long way from where she was – to where she is now – to HELP YOU SHIFT YOUR MONEY STORY because money should never be an issue, but above all it should not be a reason to stay stuck in your Twin Flame journey.
Flexing your receiving muscle
In order to be able to receive more, you need to work those receiving muscles just like you would work your body muscles in the gym. The more you use them, the bulkier they get right? So for one become conscious of every time you are deflecting a gift instead of receiving it. How do you react to compliments? What do you say when someone wants to give you a gift? How much are you really willing and able to receive? Really be honest with yourself and catch yourself in the act of pushing your good away from you. I have been practicing with this for years, sometimes I still deflect things automatically but by now most times I am able to receive graciously and say ‘thank you’ realizing that it is not only that person, but also the Divine using this situation, person or thing as a channel to show their unending love for me.
Now just like you would track your results at the gym, to measure the increase of your muscles and the decrease of fat percentage… A great way to really consciously flex your receiving muscles and stick with it – because that is the game changer in all things you want to shift in your life – to implement the change consistently – you should TRACK your money and received value. What you pay attention to grows and there is no better way to pay attention to all the financial love coming in from the Universe, than to track it!
We have developed an awesome tool to help you do just that, our Money Tracker that you can buy for a symbolic amount of $7. Normally we charged $20 for this product, because this simple tool changes your money story forever. Tracking money is something that all successful business owners use in their businesses and it works just as well if you are only tracking your personal finances – because the principle stays the same.
Amping up your receiving vibe
So after you become more conscious in opening up to receive and catch yourself when you are ready to deflect the good coming your way. Plus when you track the good stuff coming in, you start seeing that the glass is not as empty as you first thought it was… then it’s time to throw in the amplifiers. There are three energies that amp up your receiving vibe and I’ll discuss all three of them:
- Gratitude – my best tip is to start a gratitude journal in which you track everything that you are grateful for. This gives you the chance to also track things that cannot be expressed in dollars. Don’t think this can replace tracking the dollars coming in because that is another part of the equation that you can’t skip – your gratitude journal is a practice you do on top of this to signal to the Universe that you love what’s being brought into your reality and you are ready to receive more.
- Forgiveness – this works the other way around. Unforgiveness is a wall or actually a prison you build around yourself that in fact KEEPS OUT the very things you want to receive in life. If there are family members that you need to forgive, ex-lovers, friends or enemies – forgiveness is always an act of Self love and something you do for yourself. You will see the deeper you can forgive people in your life, the more easily your good can flow into your life. You can try the ho’oponopono method but I often see people struggle with this, when they have not yet been able to see the blessing in the difficulty. It’s one of the things I work with explicitly when helping clients in their forgiveness process.
- Love – exuding the love vibe is probably the most attractive money magnet there is. When my twin and I are close and in the love vibe, money starts coming in like an avalanche. Money is good in general now in my life, but when we are really in our Twin Flame glow it supercharges everything in my life including money.
Removing subconscious blocks to more money
Now we are getting to the root of things and this is where all money blocks originate from and that is in your subconscious mind. Whatever you are experiencing in your outer reality is a product of what you hold to be true in your subconscious mind. The tricky thing about the subconscious mind though is that you are not consciously aware of what is in there. It’s a bit of a black box thing, so we need something powerful to change its programming. Because that is basically what we are up against – hard coded beliefs from childhood, ancestry and past lives and that all mixed up together creates your current reality.
Neutralizing past live beliefs, oaths and vows of poverty
The most powerful of all tools that I know also from my personal experience is really going into the subconscious mind to find the outdated belief, oath or past life vow that is messing up your current day money flow. When you can make it conscious and neutralize it, it automatically changes your money reality.
I have experienced this first hand as I have shared in my article about blasting through the 5 figure a month ceiling I kept hitting against in the past. So back in 2012 I wanted to double my revenue and hit the 5 figures, that start at 10K. One thing I knew for sure was that I could not work any harder, I was already working much more hours than I should have been. So I knew it was a mindset thing. It was actually by accident that I slipped into a past live and when I say by accident I mean that I had no intention to go there, at that time in my life I was not even sure I believed in past lives – even though it was part of the spiritual upbringing I had received as a child. To be honest I was quite skeptical about it, which makes it a great cosmic joke that this turned out to be my exact unique gift to the world – channeling an energy that allows people to access their subconscious mind and their past lives through their Akashic records.
Anyway I saw a lifetime in which I was a rich man and my family had put me in a mental asylum in order to get their hands on my money. Now I have to admit I was a bit eccentric in that life, but not crazy. However in the end I allowed myself to be convinced that I was crazy and I left that life with the strong belief, that being rich meant losing everything – including myself. Because that was what had happened to me. The thing with beliefs is that they don’t actually have to be true, you only need to believe they are true for them to shape your reality. In fact a lot of our beliefs are pure hogwash, but we hold them to be true anyway because we misinterpreted an experience like I did in that past lifetime.
I neutralized that belief by realizing that it made no sense at all to keep believing this in this lifetime and that it made even less sense to have this belief create my current day reality, which was exactly what was going on – I was literally on the verge of losing everything just before I uncovered this belief. That month a new client came after a long drought, in December a €9K client came in, but she wanted to pay in three installments and in January 2013 out of nowhere we hit €10K.
That was my personal experience, then in 2016 shortly after I had spent physical time with my Twin Flame in India I was given the energy I channel and since then I have worked with many clients on their money blocks. I even helped Twin Flame YouTuber Chantel from HippKoala get the money to fly out to London to meet her twin for the first time in real life! Chantel had massive beliefs around money not being spiritual that had to be cleared. If you believe this too that money and spirituality, don’t mix do read her story because it’s just a block that is keeping you from really receiving the love/money you deserve.
Another issue that comes up when I work with clients in past lives are past life oaths and vows of poverty that need to be released. Because as long as you carry these past life energies around with you they will be co-creating your reality by default – attracting the matching experiences to these beliefs.
I pray this article supports you in turning your money story around. When you are ready to really dig deep to find your limiting money beliefs, you can book a session with me to look inside your subconscious mind and the past lives bleeding through in your current reality.
Wishing you magic and miracles on this amazing adventure with your beloved.
Lots of love,