Are you stuck in the Twin Flame runner/chaser dynamic or separation?
Being part of a Twin Soul couple myself I know the utter frustration and pain of the Twin Flame runner/chaser dynamic and separation. A large part of 2014 and 2015 my twin and I spent on playing hide and seek, with him coming closer and closer and then often without a warning running away again from me, himself and the situation. I would then give him some space, but at some point would always want him back in my life and would knock politely or bang on his walls if needed, until he would let me back in. He would at some point always open the door, let me back in – get scared and run again. We had that on rinse and repeat for almost two years.
Then practically the whole of 2016 until 2017 we spent in separation, only to find out that no amount of time or distance could undo our love for each other. So I know all the various stages the Twin Flame journey has to offer intimately and have encountered almost ALL of the common Twin Flame obstacles in my personal journey. Spirit has shown me that it was important to experience these challenges first hand, in order to optimally serve the Twin Flame collective in all my work, including these sessions.
Some Twin Flame couples manage to keep this dynamic of push-pull up and running for decades, which is really too bad because they just hurt each other over and over again. What I realized pretty quickly when I found myself in a Twin Flame relationship, is that it is designed to bring up all your unhealed traumas and false beliefs that you have been carrying around for ages.
However when my journey started most of the Twin Flame info on the internet didn’t really go further then repeating the Twin Flame stages and telling you that you need to surrender to get out of the runner and chaser dynamic. Surrendering is certainly an important step towards Twin Flame union, but the final step to manifesting union is becoming a vibrational match to your heart’s desire.
It’s really simple you need to be at the vibrational frequency of Twin Flame Union (that what you want to manifest) in order for it to become real in your physical reality.
This is where energy clearing comes in and that takes a lot more than just doing guided meditations. It requires you to to clear out your subconscious blocks from this lifetime and past lives that are lowering your personal vibrational frequency and keeping you out of alignment with your deepest heart’s desire.
Removing this ancient gunk and sludge is what really clears your energy field and raises your vibrational frequency. Your vibrational field (like most people) is filled with past hurts and unresolved trauma from previous lifetimes, this congests your energy field and co-creates your current reality by attracting matching vibrations into your life.
It’s not fear that triggers running – it’s old baggage coming up to be healed
While most Twin Flame sites will tell you that it is fear that is making your Twin Flame run, that is only a small part of what is really going on. In reality it’s old unhealed traumas, outdated beliefs and fears rising up out of the subconscious mind from this lifetime and previous lifetimes that are in fact keeping you out of harmony and out of alignment to your heart’s desire.
By focusing on yourself and removing your own subconscious blocks you and your twin will grow closer and closer again.
Every time my twin ran away, I was able to heal on a deeper level. The Twin Flame dynamic brings on a purging process for every twin pair. It’s built in, in the Twin Flame package – you can’t escape it. You can however make it a lot less painful and speed up the cleansing process, by proactively finding the wounds that are triggering separation or a runner/chaser dynamic between you and your twin.
You are a vibrational being who is made up of both a conscious part and a subconscious part, your conscious part is only deciding 5% of your life. The subconscious mind directs your life for 95% so if there is still a lot of subconscious pain and trauma in the subconscious mind, it will attract matching vibrational outcomes in your physical reality.
What you belief to be true within you – whether conscious or subconscious, is mirrored back to you as your physical reality outside of you. A lot of our subconscious beliefs that we held true lifetimes and lifetimes ago are not aligned to our highest truth and by having them mirrored back to us in our 3rd dimensional reality we get a chance to become consciously aware of the subconscious belief and decide if we still want to believe this belief is true or not.
In fact ALL subconscious beliefs are co-creating our current day reality without you knowing it.
In my session with clients we often see that what is happening today in their Twin Flame connection is a redo of a previous life or a deeper karmic pattern that they have had on rinse and repeat throughout multiple lifetimes with their twin.
When it comes to subconscious beliefs, you need to either PLAY out the past or CLEAR out the past.
This is because everything that you do not clear out yourself, you will have to play out in your physical reality to have it fully cleared. Clearing out these old energies, reduces and often eliminates the necessity to have to play out all these painful past hurts in your life in order to heal them. This makes your journey less painful and easier to navigate.
The problem is, like many situations and relationships here on planet Earth – the Twin Flame relationship DOES NOT come with an instruction manual. So, often you have no idea what is going on or why this relationship can involve so much pain. Your Twin Flame will bring up each and every wound to the surface that needs your attention. This happens not with the intention to hurt you, but to prepare you for the next step in your soul evolution- inner union (outer union is but a mere reflection of this union found within).
These are some of the wounds that your Twin Flame can trigger for you to heal, which are keeping you from fully living your soul truth:
- Fear of abandonment
- Wounds in relation to your mother
- Wounds in relation to your father
- Inner child wounding
- Sexual abuse issues
- Grieve & loss issues
- Anger & resentment issues
- Fears great & small
- Hatred & revenge issues
- Your relationship with your soul
- Your relationship with the divine
- Wounds with your Twin Flame in past lives
- Unresolved karma from past lives
- Past life oaths and vows that are keeping you out of union
- Ancestral beliefs around love and marriage
- Codependency and stepping into your power
What makes it even more complex is that you are often not consciously aware of the wounds that are being triggered. On the outside it will just look like your Twin Flame is behaving badly, leading you on and playing games. They might tell you they don’t love you anymore or don’t want to be with you.
All these outer appearances in your reality are in fact not what is really going on.
The truth is that you and your twin pre-scripted your journey together for this lifetime and all this so called ‘bad behavior‘ is in fact meant to trigger these subconscious wounds that you were unaware of but that were shaping your everyday experiences nonetheless.
This creates an immense opportunity for you to heal and grow, which will help you to really transform your life and create the life of your dreams – by clearing out all these subconscious blocks that were keeping you stuck in unwanted realities. Which means that this healing and clearing work you do not only benefits your Twin Flame connection, you actually reap the biggest rewards as it transforms your life beyond your wildest dreams.
Will this help you align to union with your Twin Flame?
Yes! If this person is your true Twin Flame then any work you do on becoming more whole within yourself will work through in your relationship with your twin.
Remember what you witness outside of you is only a reflection of what you hold to be true inside of you. The more you heal and clear within yourself, the more healed and cleared your physical reality becomes (that is mirrored back to you). So even if this person turns out – not to be your Twin Flame, the healing and clearing work you have done is not lost. It has brought you in a complete new higher vibrational reality, which brings in everything in your life that matches that more loving and harmonious frequency.
That increased loving and harmonius vibration that you then naturally emanate into the world, magnetizes to you it’s own reflection as your physical reality.
This is the only true road to Twin Flame union, becoming it’s vibrational match – so that it can manifest itself in your physical reality. You can’t manipulate or push and shove your way to union because it won’t be sustainable.
All this past (life) gunk and sludge, these outdated beliefs, repressed emotions, traumas, past life oaths and vows – all this wounding is lowering your personal vibrational frequency and needs to be released from your vibrational field in order for you to become a vibrational match to the higher vibrational frequency of Twin Flame union (which is not just a romantic relationship).
Because the Twin Flame connection is meant to be so much more than a romantic love story, the journey with your twin leads to becoming whole within yourself. Instead of being a half looking for another half to make them whole – this journey forces you to first find this wholeness inside yourself.
Twin Flame union is the outer manifestation of the inner union, found in oneself. True union cannot be lost, because it’s a soul growth process and therefore a state of consciousness in the self that is reflected back in the physical experience. It is a self perpetuating inner state, that does not depend on outer conditions.
To be honest many Divine Feminines with their strong focus on union and the obsessing over their twin 24/7 are in fact repelling their twin and union, because their intense desire completely demagnetizes them to their heart’s desire. Twin Flame union comes through detachment, it doesn’t manifest through intense desire.
Even this obsessing about your twin 24/7 or an intense focus on physical romantic union, are all the earlier mentioned subconscious wounds that need to be addressed in order to become the vibrational match to the manifestation of your deepest heart’s desire. I know how deep this desire is, I have felt it as well on my own journey towards my Twin Flame – but it has to be neutralized in order for you to create union as a physical reality.
Because these states are caused by false beliefs that your happiness lies outside of you or depends on others. This keeps you searching for fulfillment externally, which equals to believing you are a half searching for another half to make you whole.
It’s clearing those beliefs and the (past life) situation in which you created them, that brings you back to your wholeness and into alignment to the union you crave.
Akashic record clearing
In order to help you heal these past lives and bring the subconscious programming that needs to be reprogrammed, into your conscious awareness I have developed a technique that gives you direct access to your own Akashic records. I use this technique in the Twin Flame Reunion Journeys to facilitate deep vibrational healing and clearing.
The Twin Flame Reunion journeys offer you a powerful journey into your subconscious mind and Akashic record to help you release deep unconscious and often karmic patterns that are weighing your vibrational field down with dense energies – which keep you corded to the old 3D paradigm templates and vibrational frequency.
It’s these energies that repel your twin and cause energetic disharmony which is at the root of the Twin Flame runner/chaser dynamic and long term separation. Remember Twin Flame unions don’t work on the two halves, becoming one whole model. Your twin will keep triggering everywhere where you are still feeling cut off from your own wholeness, even when you are already in a romantic relationship together.
The point of a Twin Flame connection is not the romance, the point is the soul growth – the romance is the cherry on top.
We all wish there was a magic pill, that we could take and we would be in instant union with our Twin Flame. Trust me, that pill doesn’t exist. We all have to do our own inner work and with this session, I can help you find multiple past lives and the subconscious programming that are keeping you and your twin out of harmony.
In the session you will experience directly which exact (past life) trauma’s, beliefs and repressed emotions are at this moment causing your Twin Flame to keep distance. The Gangsta Goddesses energy will help you heal and clear these vibrational wounds at the deepest level. This cleansing will benefit YOU personally, it will benefit your twin (as all the healing work one twin does works through to the benefit of the other twin too) and it will benefit your Twin Flame connection.
Many Twin Flames are scheduled to come into union in the coming years, but it is not something that just magically happens. If that were the case there wouldn’t be so many twin couples in separation for years on end and often even decades.
You have to remove your own (subconscious) blocks to union. The more you heal on your own initiative, the less wounds there are left that can be triggered in your Twin Flame relationship and the deeper these union energies can help you connect to your twin in the time to come.
Doing your inner healing work, in the end will be what will bring you into lasting harmony with your twin and get the most out of the supportive energies that are now being sent down to help more and more Twin Flames reach their final reunion together.
How does it work?
The Twin Flame Reunion Journeys are done by audio call. After you have paid for the session you will receive the link to my digital calendar, where you can book the date and time that suits you best. After your booking has been confirmed, I will call you at the appointed date and time.
During the call I will bring in the Gangsta Goddesses energy through your chakra’s, this energy activates your own dormant psychic ability allowing you to see (feel, hear or know) during the session.
In this journey into your Akashic record and subconscious mind we will clear and heal:
- Any ancestral beliefs that are keeping you and your twin out of harmony, beliefs around love, marriage and men that the women and the men in your family believed in and passed down to you
- Any childhood and inner child wounding that are standing between you and your twin and creating a healthy mature love relationship (For example trying to get Daddy’s love from your twin)
- Any wounding and beliefs in this lifetime in regards to men and previous love relationships that are keeping you from fully manifesting a physical love relationship with your Twin Flame
- Any wounding and beliefs from past lives that have you mistrust men/women, doubt love, fear sexuality or have any other negative charge that is making you subconsciously distrust the other sex in this lifetime
- Any joint past lives with your twin in which you hurt, killed one another, lost each other or any other memory that has now been reactivated and needs to be healed before you can reach harmony together
The journey will take you through multiple past lifetimes and current life wounds which we will heal one by one. This will then reveal a deeper underlying karmic pattern to me, that we will hone in on and I will help you clear the root karmic pattern that is causing the manifestation of that same pattern in this lifetime.
Everything you heal in this journey will change your own vibrational frequency. It will also work through to your Twin Flame as your chakra systems are connected to each other and it will reduce the triggers between you that set off running, allowing for a more harmonious relationship together.
Manifesting a Twin Flame love relationship is much like any other manifestation, in which you need to eliminate all the internal blocks that are keeping you from manifesting your deepest heart’s desire – a loving and harmonious partnership with the love of your life – Your ONE TRUE LOVE. Some you will easily access yourself, other blocks are lodged deep inside your subconscious mind.
The Twin Flame Reunion Journey will help you get deep access to your subconscious mind and find the different ways YOU are subconsciously BLOCKING your own Twin Flame Union, even when it is consciously your deepest and most wanted heart’s desire.
This is a maximum 2 hour session on an audio call. Please make sure to use a headset.
If you have never worked with me before please start with a two hour session, as we will need that time to really access the underlying karmic pattern that needs to be healed.
After the session please:
- Take an Epsom salt foot bath (sea salt or magnesium salt work too) to fully release the energies that we have brought up for clearing from the past lives we worked in.
- Burn some dried sage in the room where you sat during the journey, this to clean the space energetically of all the residue energies we cleared during the session.
- Drink lots of water to help flush out all the energies that were lodged in your physical body and are now being released.
Two sessions were more effective than months of conventional therapy
In my second session with Sabriyé I saw how the low self worth I have carried through many lifetimes has led to energetically coddling my twin, resonating with his pain and making excuses for his inconsiderate behavior, which stems from his own low self worth. I was reinforcing that. I understand why he ran from that energy.
After re-experiencing this pain at its source, I’ve let it go and shifted into expecting better for myself and from him. For me, two sessions with Sabriyé were more effective than months of conventional therapy. This shift doesn’t easily happen through logic and intellectual processing. It happens through energy and emotional experience, and it can happen quickly. I’m so grateful.
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